By Richard A. Isay
"What's love bought to do with it? every thing, in line with Richard Isay's expert and illuminating examine the function of romance in sleek homosexual existence. I hugely suggest this booklet for individuals of any new release and partnership status."
--Dean H. Hamer, Ph.D., writer of The technology of wish and The God Gene
"Richard Isay deals anything much better than basic bromides and fake desire. during this e-book, he demanding situations us with a provocative, illuminating, and finally hopeful examine ourselves and explains how these folks who yearn to like and be enjoyed (and who doesn't?) can most sensible locate happiness and therapeutic in a dedicated relationship."
--Eric Marcus, writer of The Male Couple's consultant and jointly Forever
"Many homosexual males (and others, too) are inclined to locate this publication highly fascinating and beneficial. In a chain of vividly illuminating case histories and with a psychoanalyst's intensity and readability of perception, Richard Isay lucidly explains why homosexual males have specific hassle in setting up and maintaining loving relationships and the way they could sensibly increase their probabilities of doing so."
--Harry G. Frankfurt, Ph.D., writer of On Bullshit and the explanations of Love
"Richard Isay's portrayals of homosexual men's lives usually are arguable. Isay isn't the stereotypical psychoanalyst who sits quietly whereas his sufferers ramble--and we're all of the larger for that. He has whatever to claim and what he says is worthy listening to. This provocative ebook may be learn by way of a person who yearns for yet hasn't but discovered genuine love."
--William Rubenstein, Founding Director of the Williams Institute on Sexual Orientation legislations and previous Director of the ACLU Lesbian & homosexual Rights Project
"Based on Dr. Isay's 3 many years of expertise operating with homosexual males in remedy, this can be a deeply considerate examine of the problems homosexual males may perhaps adventure with falling and staying in love. For a homosexual guy, examining this publication can cause him to revisit a few darkish locations alongside his personal life's trip, however it also will supply him a glimpse of the self-affirmation and capability for switch which are the pursuits of gay-positive psychotherapy."
--Simon LeVay, Ph.D., writer of Human Sexuality and Queer Science
"Indispensable insights from America's wisest observer of homosexual relationships."
--Charles Kaiser, writer of The homosexual Metropolis
"Gay humans search the liberty to marry for a similar mixture of purposes as non-gay humans, and for many, love and dedication are crucial. Drawing on his unparalleled services and many years of reports from his sufferers, Richard Isay explores the demanding situations and cost of romantic love--how to beat our pasts and increase our current lives at home--as we construct a way forward for better equality and inclusion in society."
--Evan Wolfson, writer of Why Marriage issues